Commitment and Carl Jung
Accept that a relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy. More and more men I work with raise the question: why should I commit to one relationship, after all? Not surprisingly, this question mainly arises in situations where the relationship presents difficulties or certain emotional pains. As I mature, I understand that the ultimate goal of partnership in my life is to help me transform into the best version of myself, not necessarily always to make me happy. I don't know of any couple that doesn't experience challenges, doubts, moments of wanting to escape, fatigue, weariness, etc. It's naive to think that your own relationship can escape these challenges. Just look at our relationship with ourselves – even we are not always liking ourselves, moments of doubt, weariness, and anger can appear from time to time in the face of the self. Partnership involves sharing life with another person, and life is full of such challenges. Therefore, assume that the p...